What you’re likely to do is shrug and say, “She’s my kind of crazy.”After all, sociopaths can seem exciting, come off as deliciously deviant, and make great co-conspirators (example: that girl with the dragon tattoo).
Plus, master manipulators are good at hiding their tracks.
That's probably why you were drawn to them in the first place.
Do you ever get the feeling that the person you're talking to knows what they're saying isn't true?
And when you bring up her flakiness, does she acknowledge her fault and promise to stop, only to flake on you the next day? They’re charming AF when they want to be, but when they’re done with you, they turn real ugly, real fast. If you catch her lying to you and you confront her about it, she’ll deny everything and say you’re paranoid. Same thing if she hurts your feelings but does it again, even after you tell her not to. But then again, she might also try and talk you into dining-and-dashing, or stealing a Gucci handbag for her, and that's 8. Sociopaths have a tendency to attract or start drama, because that's kind of what they live for. But it's never her own fault, because she's never wrong. If so, I highly recommend breaking up with her before shit hits the fan.
But the good news is that unlike Patrick Bateman, odds are they won’t try to murder you after sex. For instance, if you tell her you know for certain she was with another man two nights ago, she’ll say: “Ugh, shut up. Like if she keeps aggressively pointing out your thinning hairline, even after you tell her you're sensitive about it and don't appreciate her bald jokes. Sociopaths tend to be risk takers, which makes them fun to be around.
You read the list, and still you are not sure, after all he/she was just so ‘nice’.She Will Be Eager to Data Mine You If sociopaths are narcissistic, they must love to talk about themselves, right? A female sociopath is more likely to keep directing the conversation back to a new acquaintance as much as possible.Unlike narcissists, who artlessly demand others’ approval, sociopaths have a will to power.They don’t feel bad after an argument; they don’t “do” remorse. Their focus is very good, and if they want you, they’re totally focused on you. Wait until they’re bored with you — their attitude will change very quickly. They swear how ‘bad’ that person is, how useless they are and why they‘re to blame.It’s like they have a few key “tools” missing from the emotional toolbox the rest of us have. They seem to make a lot of mistakes As you get to know them, you notice they make a lot of mistakes, and they don’t seem to learn from these. They seem exciting Sociopaths often take risks, sometimes it seems like they’re exercising bad judgement. It’s easy to get drawn into the excitement and buzz they can generate.Sociopaths are skilled liars, but sometimes they're so disingenous that their actions and facial expressions give them away.